We live in a world that is so connected We are who we are because of our parents and family. We do what we do to either please others or to make a statement, to stand up and be proud of ourselves. We react to the challenges in life based off what we know.
I look at people around me and the different way to deal with pain, joy, frustration, confusion, love.... life. We are all from different cloth. Why is it so hard for us to see that and appreciate it. I feel like often people get upset and judge so quickly, not willing to look at the whole person. What made that girl so insecure in her past, what happened to her that created such a hard shell that contributed to what a BITCH she is today!? There is so much more to life then what we feel in a moment. But it only takes a moment to judge and react and possibly create a life long regret.
How many people have you seen that regret a moment. An impulse.
How many people have you Hurt? Judged? made an instant decision about and for the rest of your life that is the foundation of your relationship?
Just food for thought....